Emil’s College Starter Packet
Class of 2028 · Fairfield County / FCIAC · built for Emil
📖 Start here — Dad’s note & how to think about this▾
This is just for you, Emil. It's the start of a map for finding a school you'll be happy at, where maybe you can keep playing lacrosse — on your own best long-term path. They're loosely organized around undecided-what-to-do-in-school / maybe-architecture-maybe-civil-engineering. Flavored that way, but not that much.
I put this together to give you a starting point, and to orient you as you navigate the next 2 years of your life — a framework for how to think about college and lacrosse, and how to organize what comes next.
Your junior year will matter the most for everything college-related. Academics. Lacrosse. Admissions.
Remember this while you click around: you moved from middie to goalie because your team needed someone with the guts to do it, and you took it seriously. You're not chasing a D1 scholarship — you're planning the next great four years that'll start the rest of your life, and hopefully a team to be part of. That's knowing what actually matters.
🗺️ How to use this
Thumb schools up or down as you go — the whole family sees the votes, and the ranking below sorts itself live. Drop a note on any school too (anyone can edit it). But the votes are just a tool. The real job is finding your fit, and three questions decide that:
- Would I want to be here for four years even if I never picked up a stick? If the answer's no, it's off the list — no matter how good the lacrosse is.
- Can I figure out my major here without locking in right now? You're leaning engineering but undecided, and that's completely fine. Flexibility beats a famous single program.
- What does it actually cost after aid? Never the sticker price — run the net-price calculator, because the real number is usually a lot lower.
Lacrosse shows up as one of two lanes on each school — never as the thing that ranks it:
- Club (MCLA): you get in as a student, then walk on. No recruiting, no gatekeeping. This is your floor — you are going to play somewhere.
- D-III: a real varsity team where you can just email the coach. No pressure. It gets a small bump because you'd love a real team — but never ahead of the three questions above.
Schools are sorted by admission odds into Safe (your happy landing spots), Normal (where most of your energy goes), and Reach (only if you fall in love).
🥍 The lacrosse perspective — read this part
It's very likely you'll play in college somewhere, if you don't get picky about the division, regardless of what happens in the next 2 years. Every big school on this list has a club team at least. That takes nothing but getting in based on academic admissions.
Since you're not chasing D1, your junior-year varsity play is the thing that gives you clips and game tape.
You've also got something most goalies don't: you used to be a midfielder — you're fast, you're strong. Coaches love a goalie who kicks off the offense. So when you play this year, show the clears and the run-outs too, not just the saves. That'll be your advantage.
📅 The calendar
So you know what's allowed, and when:
| Path | When you can talk to coaches |
|---|---|
| D-III | Anytime — including right now. No NCAA contact rules. |
| Club / MCLA | No rules at all — you contact the team once you're admitted. |
| D-II | June 15 after sophomore year (already open). |
| D-I | Sept 1 of junior year — but you're not chasing D-I, so don't sweat it. |
| Navy / academies | Their own process, starting junior year (see below). |
Bottom line: you can email D-III coaches at schools you like whenever. Pick the schools first.
🏆 Family ranking
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📋 The board at a glance
School names link to detail cards (each card has thumbs, a shared note, + a back link).
| School | Admission | Lane | Engineering | ~Cost | Drive |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Safe | Club (MCLA) | Broad ABET eng (civil, mech, etc.) | $39K/$66K | ~1.5 hr | |
| Safe | Club (MCLA) | Civil + broad eng | $38K/$58K | ~4 hr | |
| Safe | Club (MCLA) | Civil, broad | $35K/$56K | ~2.5 hr | |
| Safe | Club | Civil + broad ABET (mech, env) | $33K/$65K | ~4 hr | |
| Safe | Club (MCLA) | Civil | $31K/$52K | ~6.5-7 hr | |
| Safe | D-III | Civil + Arch design/tech | $64-70K | ~1.1 hr | |
| Safe | D-III | Civil + Architecture | $72-78K | ~3 hr | |
| Safe | D-III | Civil (dedicated eng college) | $62-68K | ~2 hr | |
| Safe | D-III | Civil + Architecture | $73-80K | ~2.5-3 hr | |
| Safe | Club (men's) | Civil | $65-72K | ~0.75 hr | |
| Safe | D-III | ABET maritime/eng (mech, marine, EE, naval arch) | $30K/$45K | ~1-1.25 hr | |
| Safe | D-III | Eng-tech (verify ABET/PE) | $30K/$42K | ~4.5 hr | |
| Safe | D-III | Civil eng tech | $29K/$42K | ~5.5-6 hr | |
| Safe | D-III | Civil | $68-74K | ~3 hr | |
| Safe | D-III | Civil/Environmental | $34K/$48K | ~3 hr | |
| Safe | D-II | Limited eng (verify) | $75-82K | ~1 hr | |
| Safe | Not a factor | Civil/related | $76-82K | ~3.5 hr | |
| Safe | D-III | Maritime/marine (verify civil) | $31K/$50K | ~3.5 hr | |
| Safe | Club | Civil | $34K/$51K | ~3 hr | |
| Safe | Club | Verify (civil/mech/SW) | $76-82K | ~0.75 hr | |
| Safe | Not a factor | Civil/eng school | $75-82K | ~1.5 hr | |
| Safe | Not a factor | Civil, strong co-op | $35K/$55K | ~3.5 hr | |
| Safe | Club (MCLA) | Civil, co-op | $66-72K | fly / ~650 mi | |
| Safe | Club | Civil + Arch (DAAP) | $31K/$52K | fly / ~700 mi | |
| Safe | D-III | Civil (applied) | $68-74K | fly / ~900 mi | |
| Safe | Club | Civil | $30K/$50K | fly / ~1,100 mi | |
| Safe | Club | Civil | $33K/$59K | fly / ~1,200 mi | |
| Safe | Club/D-II | Aerospace/mech (not civil) | $66-72K | fly / ~1,100 mi | |
| Safe | Club (MCLA) | Civil, broad | $24K/$43K | fly / ~1,100 mi | |
| Safe | Club (MCLA) | Civil | $34K/$55K | fly / ~1,850 mi | |
| Normal | Not a factor | Broad civil/env (+ design) | $38K/$62K | ~2.5-3 hr | |
| Normal | Not a factor | Civil | $36K/$61K | ~4 hr | |
| Normal | Not a factor | Eng (verify civil) | $82-88K | Local | |
| Normal | Not a factor | Civil + Architecture | $40K/$59K | ~1.5-2 hr | |
| Normal | D-III | Civil | $75-80K | ~6.5 hr | |
| Normal | D-III | Civil eng tech (verify CE) | $78-84K | ~6 hr | |
| Normal | D-III | Civil, NYC outcomes | $88K | ~1.5 hr | |
| Normal | Club (MCLA) | Civil + Architecture | $36K/$61K | fly / ~530 mi | |
| Normal | Club (MCLA) | Civil + Design | $29K/$55K | ~9.5 hr / 560 mi | |
| Normal | Club (MCLA) | Civil + Env Design | $38K/$68K | fly / ~1,850 mi | |
| Normal | Club/rec | Civil (elite undergrad eng) | $76-82K | fly / ~830 mi | |
| Normal | D-III | Civil/Environmental | $82K+ | ~2.5 hr | |
| Reach | D-III | Civil + Architecture | $83-88K | ~2.5-3 hr | |
| Reach | Club (MCLA) | Civil + Architecture (elite) | $34K/$57K | fly / ~3,000 mi | |
| Reach | Not a factor | Civil | ~$90K | ~2.5 hr | |
| Reach | Not a factor | Civil | ~$92-95K | ~2.5 hr | |
| Reach | Not a factor | Civil | ~$95-96K | ~4.5 hr | |
| Reach | D-III | Engineering in LAC | $84-90K | ~3 hr | |
| Reach | D-III | Engineering science (limited) | $86-92K | ~1 hr | |
| Reach | Not a factor | Weak eng (pre-eng style) | $82-88K | ~5.5 hr | |
| Reach | Own track | Strong STEM (ocean, naval arch, mech, aero, EE, nuclear) | $0/$0 + service obligation | ~4.5-5 hr | |
| Reach | D-III | Maritime eng (#29 non-doctoral, older) | $0/$0 + fees/obligation | ~1-1.5 hr |
🎓 Detailed school cards
🟢 Safe — floor / safeties
University of Connecticut (UConn) SafeClub (MCLA)
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Where / sizeStorrs, CT · ~1.5 hr · ~34,400 students
Engineering / majorBroad ABET eng (civil, mech, etc.). Flexibility: High - easy to explore/switch. Architecture: No B.Arch.
Academic repNational research flagship; grad eng ~#58 / ~#31 public
Admit (you)Likely-Target
LacrosseMCLA D-I club (Continental). Walk on after admission; no gatekeeping.
Cost$39K in-state / $66K OOS. In-state value - best net price on the board.
Cool to knowBig-school spirit + in-state price
Do firstAdd to list now; free in-state visit
NoteStrongest floor pick
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University of New Hampshire SafeClub (MCLA)
0
Where / sizeDurham, NH · ~4 hr · ~16,000 students
Engineering / majorCivil + broad eng. Flexibility: High. Architecture: No.
Academic repPublic R1; solid flagship profile
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseMCLA D-I club. Walk on after admission.
Cost$38K in-state / $58K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowOutdoors + strong club for play-for-love
Do firstAdd to list; research club
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University of Rhode Island SafeClub (MCLA)
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Where / sizeKingston, RI · ~2.5 hr · ~17,200 students
Engineering / majorCivil, broad. Flexibility: Medium-High. Architecture: Limited.
Academic repPublic R2 national university
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseMCLA D-II club. Walk on after admission.
Cost$35K in-state / $56K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowCoastal New England, beaches
Do firstAdd to list
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University of Vermont (UVM) SafeClub
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Where / sizeBurlington, VT · ~4 hr · ~13,500 students
Engineering / majorCivil + broad ABET (mech, env). Flexibility: High - easy to explore/switch. Architecture: No.
Academic repPublic flagship/R1; outdoorsy New England flagship
Admit (you)Likely-Target (OOS-friendly)
LacrosseClub team (NCAA D-I varsity exists, not your recruit path). Walk on the club team after admission.
Cost$33K in-state / $65K OOS. Public; CT is OOS - priciest of the UNH/URI/UVM trio OOS.
Cool to knowBurlington - Lake Champlain, mountains, ski culture, great college town
Do firstAdd if outdoors/Burlington vibe pulls you
NoteVarsity men's lax is D-I (America East); separate club team for walk-ons
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University of Maine SafeClub (MCLA)
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Where / sizeOrono, ME · ~6.5-7 hr · ~12,000 students
Engineering / majorCivil. Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repPublic flagship/R1; eng ~#150
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseMCLA D-II club. Walk on after admission.
Cost$31K in-state / $52K OOS. Cheap; verify common-market merit.
Cool to knowOutdoorsy, low pressure, low cost
Do firstKeep as value safety
NoteFar
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University of Hartford SafeD-III
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Where / sizeWest Hartford, CT · ~1.1 hr · ~6,000 students
Engineering / majorCivil + Arch design/tech. Flexibility: Medium-High (civil/arch). Architecture: Arch Design+Tech / M.Arch.
Academic repRegional private practical STEM
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseNCAA D-III (CNE). Email coach anytime; walk-on realistic.
Cost$64-70K (pre-aid). Private; run net-price calc.
Cool to knowCivil + architecture overlap, close
Do firstEmail coach if interested
NoteCompleted D-III transition
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Wentworth Institute of Technology SafeD-III
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Where / sizeBoston, MA · ~3 hr · ~4,000 students
Engineering / majorCivil + Architecture. Flexibility: High (civil<->arch). Architecture: Architecture: Yes.
Academic repUS News Regional North ~#28; undergrad eng ~#38 non-doctoral
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseNCAA D-III (CNE). Email coach anytime; prospect day after film.
Cost$72-78K (pre-aid). Private; merit likely.
Cool to knowCo-op culture; civil+arch hedge
Do firstEmail coach (shortlist)
NoteShortlist
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Western New England University SafeD-III
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Where / sizeSpringfield, MA · ~2 hr · ~3,700 students
Engineering / majorCivil (dedicated eng college). Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repRegional private w/ engineering college
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseNCAA D-III (CNE). Email coach; goalie need plausible.
Cost$62-68K (pre-aid). Good merit/full-pay target.
Cool to knowSmall real eng college, approachable
Do firstEmail coach (shortlist)
NoteShortlist
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Roger Williams University SafeD-III
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Where / sizeBristol, RI · ~2.5-3 hr · ~4,800 students
Engineering / majorCivil + Architecture. Flexibility: High (civil<->arch). Architecture: Architecture: Yes.
Academic repRegional private; architecture differentiator
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseNCAA D-III (CNE). Email coach; summer prospect day exists.
Cost$73-80K (pre-aid). Private; run net-price calc.
Cool to knowWaterfront campus; arch + civil
Do firstEmail coach (shortlist)
NoteShortlist
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University of New Haven SafeClub (men's)
0
Where / sizeWest Haven, CT · ~0.75 hr · ~9,200 students
Engineering / majorCivil. Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repRegional private practical eng
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseClub men's (NCAA varsity women's; school moving D-I NEC). Walk on after admission.
Cost$65-72K (pre-aid). Private; merit likely.
Cool to knowCareer-focused, very close to home
Do firstAdd to list; visit
NoteMen's lax is club
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SUNY Maritime College SafeD-III
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Where / sizeThroggs Neck / Bronx, NY · ~1-1.25 hr · ~1,250 students
Engineering / majorABET maritime/eng (mech, marine, EE, naval arch). Flexibility: Medium (maritime-flavored). Architecture: Naval arch only.
Academic repSpecialized public maritime; top-5 ROI
Admit (you)Likely-Target
LacrosseNCAA D-III varsity. Email coach fall jr; realistic D-III.
Cost$30K in-state / $45K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowNavy-adjacent w/o academy gauntlet; ~45 min
Do firstEmail coach (shortlist)
NoteShortlist; Regiment != obligation
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SUNY Polytechnic Institute SafeD-III
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Where / sizeUtica, NY · ~4.5 hr · ~2,900 students
Engineering / majorEng-tech (verify ABET/PE). Flexibility: Low-Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repPublic polytechnic/regional
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseNCAA D-III. Email staff with film.
Cost$30K in-state / $42K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowSmall tech campus, low price
Do firstVerify degree type then email
NoteVerify civil/ABET path
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Alfred State College SafeD-III
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Where / sizeAlfred, NY · ~5.5-6 hr · ~3,800 students
Engineering / majorCivil eng tech. Flexibility: Low-Medium. Architecture: Arch/design tech: related.
Academic repApplied SUNY tech college
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseNCAA D-III. Recruit form/email first.
Cost$29K in-state / $42K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowHands-on applied; realistic roster path
Do firstEmail if NCAA play matters
NoteVerify degree vs PE goals
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Widener University SafeD-III
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Where / sizeChester, PA · ~3 hr · ~5,900 students
Engineering / majorCivil. Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repRegional private engineering
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseNCAA D-III. Ask coach before registering for camps.
Cost$68-74K (pre-aid). Private; merit likely.
Cool to knowPhilly-area, realistic D-III civil
Do firstEmail coach
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Rowan University SafeD-III
0
Where / sizeGlassboro, NJ · ~3 hr · ~22,000 students
Engineering / majorCivil/Environmental. Flexibility: Medium-High. Architecture: No.
Academic repGrowing public research/eng
Admit (you)Likely-Target
LacrosseNCAA D-III. Prospect day after film if high on list.
Cost$34K in-state / $48K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowBigger-campus feel, strong value
Do firstEmail coach
NoteBetter eng than many realize
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Pace University SafeD-II
0
Where / sizePleasantville, NY · ~1 hr · ~13,600 students
Engineering / majorLimited eng (verify). Flexibility: Low. Architecture: No.
Academic repNY-area private; not eng-centric
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseNCAA D-II. Ask before paying for camps.
Cost$75-82K (pre-aid). Private.
Cool to knowNYC-area access
Do firstInclude only if major fits
NoteWeak eng fit
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Merrimack College SafeNot a factor
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Where / sizeNorth Andover, MA · ~3.5 hr · ~6,500 students
Engineering / majorCivil/related. Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repRegional private; college experience
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseNCAA D-I (lax not your path). Skip lax; school fit only.
Cost$76-82K (pre-aid). Private.
Cool to knowNorth-of-Boston, changing D-I profile
Do firstSchool-fit only
NoteLax is D-I
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Massachusetts Maritime Academy SafeD-III
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Where / sizeBuzzards Bay, MA · ~3.5 hr · ~1,500 students
Engineering / majorMaritime/marine (verify civil). Flexibility: Low (specialized). Architecture: No.
Academic repSpecialized public STEM/maritime
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseNCAA D-III. Email coach if maritime appeals.
Cost$31K in-state / $50K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowWaterfront, structured/regimented
Do firstOnly if maritime appeals
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University of Massachusetts Dartmouth SafeClub
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Where / sizeDartmouth, MA · ~3 hr · ~8,000 students
Engineering / majorCivil. Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repPublic regional w/ engineering
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseClub / no NCAA men's varsity. Walk on after admission.
Cost$34K in-state / $51K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowSouth-coast MA value
Do firstValue safety
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Quinnipiac University SafeClub
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Where / sizeHamden, CT · ~0.75 hr · ~9,700 students
Engineering / majorVerify (civil/mech/SW). Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repPrivate; good admit odds
Admit (you)Likely
LacrosseNCLL D-II club. Walk on after admission.
Cost$76-82K (pre-aid). Private; merit likely.
Cool to knowPolished campus, close to home
Do firstVerify major then add
NoteVerify eng path
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Hofstra University SafeNot a factor
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Where / sizeHempstead, NY · ~1.5 hr · ~10,500 students
Engineering / majorCivil/eng school. Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repPrivate national; moderate selectivity
Admit (you)Likely-Target
LacrosseNCAA D-I (lax not your path). Skip lax; school fit only.
Cost$75-82K (pre-aid). Private.
Cool to knowLI/NYC access
Do firstSchool-fit only
NoteLax is D-I
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UMass Lowell SafeNot a factor
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Where / sizeLowell, MA · ~3.5 hr · ~16,700 students
Engineering / majorCivil, strong co-op. Flexibility: Medium-High. Architecture: No.
Academic repPublic research; strong eng/co-op
Admit (you)Likely-Target
LacrosseNCAA D-I (lax not your path). Skip lax; school fit only.
Cost$35K in-state / $55K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowPractical co-op eng near Boston
Do firstSchool-fit only
NoteLax is D-I
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University of Dayton SafeClub (MCLA)
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Where / sizeDayton, OH · ~fly / ~650 mi · ~9,700 students
Engineering / majorCivil, co-op. Flexibility: Medium-High. Architecture: No.
Academic repStrong private eng/co-op culture
Admit (you)Likely-Target
LacrosseMCLA club. Walk on after admission.
Cost$66-72K (pre-aid). Private; merit likely.
Cool to knowSupportive community + co-op
Do firstAdd as under-radar pick
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University of Cincinnati SafeClub
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Where / sizeCincinnati, OH · ~fly / ~700 mi · ~53,700 students
Engineering / majorCivil + Arch (DAAP). Flexibility: High (civil/arch/design). Architecture: Architecture: Yes (DAAP).
Academic repStrong co-op engineering
Admit (you)Likely-Target
LacrosseClub (verify MCLA). Walk on after admission.
Cost$31K in-state / $52K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowCo-op powerhouse, urban
Do firstAdd if open to Midwest
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Milwaukee School of Engineering (MSOE) SafeD-III
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Where / sizeMilwaukee, WI · ~fly / ~900 mi · ~3,100 students
Engineering / majorCivil (applied). Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repStrong applied eng specialty
Admit (you)Likely-Target
LacrosseNCAA D-III. Email coach if open to Midwest.
Cost$68-74K (pre-aid). Private; merit likely.
Cool to knowBest OOS D-III + engineering combo
Do firstEmail coach if open to Midwest
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Missouri University of Science & Technology SafeClub
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Where / sizeRolla, MO · ~fly / ~1,100 mi · ~7,200 students
Engineering / majorCivil. Flexibility: Medium-High. Architecture: No.
Academic repStrong eng-value public tech
Admit (you)Likely-Target
LacrosseClub/rec (verify active). Walk on if club active.
Cost$30K in-state / $50K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowEngineering value, STEM culture
Do firstVerify club status
NoteVerify club
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Michigan Technological University SafeClub
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Where / sizeHoughton, MI · ~fly / ~1,200 mi · ~7,400 students
Engineering / majorCivil. Flexibility: Medium-High. Architecture: No.
Academic repStrong public eng-focused
Admit (you)Likely-Target
LacrosseMen's lacrosse club. Walk on after admission.
Cost$33K in-state / $59K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowRemote, outdoorsy, snow + STEM
Do firstAdd if open to remote
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Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University SafeClub/D-II
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Where / sizeDaytona Beach, FL · ~fly / ~1,100 mi · ~11,400 students
Engineering / majorAerospace/mech (not civil). Flexibility: Low for civil. Architecture: No.
Academic repStrong aero/aviation niche
Admit (you)Likely-Target
LacrosseNCAA D-II / club. Walk on / verify.
Cost$66-72K (pre-aid). Private.
Cool to knowAerospace identity
Do firstOnly if aero interests you
NoteNot a civil fit
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University of Central Florida (UCF) SafeClub (MCLA)
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Where / sizeOrlando, FL · ~fly / ~1,100 mi · ~70,700 students
Engineering / majorCivil, broad. Flexibility: High. Architecture: No.
Academic repLarge public research
Admit (you)Likely-Target
LacrosseMCLA club. Walk on after admission.
Cost$24K in-state / $43K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowHuge, energetic, low cost
Do firstAdd as big-school value
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Colorado State University SafeClub (MCLA)
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Where / sizeFort Collins, CO · ~fly / ~1,850 mi · ~34,400 students
Engineering / majorCivil. Flexibility: Medium-High. Architecture: No.
Academic repStrong public R1 engineering
Admit (you)Likely-Target
LacrosseMCLA D-I club (elite). Walk on after admission; strong club.
Cost$34K in-state / $55K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowMountains + serious club lacrosse
Do firstAdd as Western swing
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🎯 Normal — your center of gravity
UMass Amherst NormalNot a factor
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Where / sizeAmherst, MA · ~2.5-3 hr · ~31,300 students
Engineering / majorBroad civil/env (+ design). Flexibility: High. Architecture: Yes/related design.
Academic repUS News Natl ~#64; grad eng ~#55
Admit (you)Target
LacrosseNCAA D-I (A-10) (lax not your path). Skip lax; go for the school.
Cost$38K in-state / $62K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowBest big-school NE experience
Do firstSchool-fit only; visit
NoteLax is D-I
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University of Delaware NormalNot a factor
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Where / sizeNewark, DE · ~4 hr · ~24,600 students
Engineering / majorCivil. Flexibility: Medium-High. Architecture: No.
Academic repPublic flagship, strong eng
Admit (you)Target
LacrosseNCAA D-I (lax not your path). Skip lax; school fit.
Cost$36K in-state / $61K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowPolished flagship + college town
Do firstSchool-fit only
NoteLax is D-I
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Fairfield University NormalNot a factor
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Where / sizeFairfield, CT · ~Local · ~6,900 students
Engineering / majorEng (verify civil). Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repStrong private, close to home
Admit (you)Target
LacrosseNCAA D-I (lax not your path). Skip lax; school fit.
Cost$82-88K (pre-aid). Private.
Cool to knowRight at home, polished
Do firstVerify eng depth
NoteLax is D-I; not civil-deep
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NJIT NormalNot a factor
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Where / sizeNewark, NJ · ~1.5-2 hr · ~12,000 students
Engineering / majorCivil + Architecture. Flexibility: High (civil/arch). Architecture: Architecture: Yes.
Academic repPublic polytechnic/research
Admit (you)Target
LacrosseNCAA D-I (lax not your path). Skip lax; school fit.
Cost$40K in-state / $59K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowUrban tech, NYC access, value
Do firstSchool-fit; strong eng/arch
NoteLax is D-I
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Clarkson University NormalD-III
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Where / sizePotsdam, NY · ~6.5 hr · ~4,000 students
Engineering / majorCivil. Flexibility: Medium-High. Architecture: No.
Academic repEngineering-focused private
Admit (you)Target
LacrosseNCAA D-III. Email coach; realistic D-III.
Cost$75-80K (pre-aid). Private; merit likely.
Cool to knowEng-first, outdoorsy, close-knit
Do firstEmail coach (shortlist)
NoteShortlist
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Rochester Institute of Technology (RIT) NormalD-III
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Where / sizeRochester, NY · ~6 hr · ~17,200 students
Engineering / majorCivil eng tech (verify CE). Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repStrong national tech/co-op
Admit (you)Target
LacrosseNCAA D-III (strong). Email only if film strong.
Cost$78-84K (pre-aid). Private; merit/fit-driven.
Cool to knowCo-op built into programs
Do firstSchool-fit; D-III is competitive
NoteD-III is a high bar
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Stevens Institute of Technology NormalD-III
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Where / sizeHoboken, NJ · ~1.5 hr · ~8,400 students
Engineering / majorCivil, NYC outcomes. Flexibility: Medium-High. Architecture: No.
Academic repUS News Natl ~#80
Admit (you)Target-Reach
LacrosseNCAA D-III. Email coach; prospect days exist.
Cost$88K (pre-aid). Private; full-pay ED can help.
Cool to knowHoboken/NYC career network
Do firstEmail coach if grades strong
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Virginia Tech NormalClub (MCLA)
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Where / sizeBlacksburg, VA · ~fly / ~530 mi · ~39,000 students
Engineering / majorCivil + Architecture. Flexibility: High. Architecture: Architecture: Yes.
Academic repTop public engineering brand
Admit (you)Target-Reach (OOS)
LacrosseMCLA D-I club (elite). Walk on after admission; high-level club.
Cost$36K in-state / $61K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowBest anywhere club + big-school fit
Do firstApply early; club after admit
NoteShortlist; OOS eng competitive
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North Carolina State University NormalClub (MCLA)
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Where / sizeRaleigh, NC · ~9.5 hr / 560 mi · ~39,000 students
Engineering / majorCivil + Design. Flexibility: High. Architecture: Architecture/Design: Yes.
Academic repVery strong public engineering
Admit (you)Target-Reach (OOS)
LacrosseMCLA club. Walk on after admission.
Cost$29K in-state / $55K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowResearch Triangle job market
Do firstApply early
NoteOOS eng tougher than overall admit
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University of Colorado Boulder NormalClub (MCLA)
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Where / sizeBoulder, CO · ~fly / ~1,850 mi · ~38,800 students
Engineering / majorCivil + Env Design. Flexibility: High. Architecture: Env Design: Yes.
Academic repStrong public R1
Admit (you)Target
LacrosseMCLA D-I club. Walk on after admission.
Cost$38K in-state / $68K OOS. Public; CT is OOS.
Cool to knowBoulder lifestyle + engineering
Do firstClub after admission
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Rose-Hulman Institute of Technology NormalClub/rec
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Where / sizeTerre Haute, IN · ~fly / ~830 mi · ~2,300 students
Engineering / majorCivil (elite undergrad eng). Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repElite undergrad engineering specialty
Admit (you)Target
LacrosseNo active varsity men's lax (club/rec likely). Verify club; not a lax driver.
Cost$76-82K (pre-aid). Private.
Cool to knowTiny, intense, elite teaching
Do firstGo for engineering, not lax
NoteConfirm playing option
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Worcester Polytechnic Institute (WPI) NormalD-III
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Where / sizeWorcester, MA · ~2.5 hr · ~7,600 students
Engineering / majorCivil/Environmental. Flexibility: Medium-High. Architecture: No.
Academic repHigh-prestige project-based STEM
Admit (you)Target-Reach
LacrosseNCAA D-III. Email coach; show academic fit.
Cost$82K+ (pre-aid). Private; grades matter more than full-pay.
Cool to knowLearn-by-projects curriculum
Do firstEmail if rigor/scores strong
NoteAcademic reach depending on rigor
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🌟 Reach — only if you love it
Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute (RPI) ReachD-III
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Where / sizeTroy, NY · ~2.5-3 hr · ~7,000 students
Engineering / majorCivil + Architecture. Flexibility: High. Architecture: Architecture: Yes.
Academic repUndergrad eng ~#33, civil ~#32
Admit (you)Target-Reach
LacrosseNCAA D-III (strong). Email only if serious academically.
Cost$83-88K (pre-aid). Private.
Cool to knowOld-school engineering prestige
Do firstSchool-fit; lax is a reach
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Cal Poly San Luis Obispo ReachClub (MCLA)
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Where / sizeSan Luis Obispo, CA · ~fly / ~3,000 mi · ~23,200 students
Engineering / majorCivil + Architecture (elite). Flexibility: High. Architecture: Architecture: Yes.
Academic repElite hands-on public STEM
Admit (you)Reach (OOS)
LacrosseMCLA club. Walk on after admission.
Cost$34K in-state / $57K OOS. Public; CT is OOS, admit by major.
Cool to knowLearn-by-doing brand + CA life
Do firstAdmissions-first
NoteOOS reach by major
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Lehigh University ReachNot a factor
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Where / sizeBethlehem, PA · ~2.5 hr · ~7,900 students
Engineering / majorCivil. Flexibility: Medium-High. Architecture: No.
Academic repHighly regarded private; strong eng
Admit (you)Reach
LacrosseNCAA D-I (lax not your path). Skip lax; school fit.
Cost~$90K (pre-aid). Private; aid affects few.
Cool to knowBeautiful campus, eng + business
Do firstOnly if you love it academically
NoteAcademic reach
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Lafayette College ReachNot a factor
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Where / sizeEaston, PA · ~2.5 hr · ~2,700 students
Engineering / majorCivil. Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repSelective LAC with real engineering
Admit (you)Reach
LacrosseNCAA D-I (lax not your path). Skip lax; school fit.
Cost~$92-95K (pre-aid). Private.
Cool to knowLAC + engineering, close faculty
Do firstOnly if you love it
NoteAcademic reach
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Bucknell University ReachNot a factor
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Where / sizeLewisburg, PA · ~4.5 hr · ~4,000 students
Engineering / majorCivil. Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repSelective private eng/LAC
Admit (you)Reach
LacrosseNCAA D-I (lax not your path). Skip lax; school fit.
Cost~$95-96K (pre-aid). Private.
Cool to knowResidential eng, beautiful campus
Do firstOnly if you love it
NoteAcademic reach
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Union College ReachD-III
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Where / sizeSchenectady, NY · ~3 hr · ~2,200 students
Engineering / majorEngineering in LAC. Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repSelective national LAC
Admit (you)Moderate-Reach
LacrosseNCAA D-III (Liberty League). Email coach; more serious after film.
Cost$84-90K (pre-aid). Private; full-pay/ED add.
Cool to knowEngineering inside a small LAC
Do firstSchool-fit; email coach
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Trinity College ReachD-III
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Where / sizeHartford, CT · ~1 hr · ~2,200 students
Engineering / majorEngineering science (limited). Flexibility: Low-Medium. Architecture: No.
Academic repHighly regarded NESCAC LAC
Admit (you)Reach (athletic bar high)
LacrosseNCAA D-III (NESCAC). Only if you love the school; high bar.
Cost$86-92K (pre-aid). Private.
Cool to knowNESCAC academics, close community
Do firstCollege-first only
NoteNot eng-first
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Hobart and William Smith Colleges ReachNot a factor
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Where / sizeGeneva, NY · ~5.5 hr · ~1,800 students
Engineering / majorWeak eng (pre-eng style). Flexibility: Low. Architecture: No.
Academic repGood LAC; coordinate-college system
Admit (you)Moderate-Reach
LacrosseHobart NCAA D-I (lax not your path). Skip lax; school fit.
Cost$82-88K (pre-aid). Private.
Cool to knowFinger Lakes setting
Do firstCollege-first only; thin eng
NoteWeak engineering
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⚓ Navy / service-academy track
Worth it only if you’d want academy life for its own sake — the scholarship, the engineering, becoming an officer — not for the lacrosse. If that pull is real, this is the track; if it isn’t, skip it without a second thought.
United States Naval Academy (USNA) ReachOwn track
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Where / sizeAnnapolis, MD · ~4.5-5 hr · ~4,400 students
Engineering / majorStrong STEM (ocean, naval arch, mech, aero, EE, nuclear). Flexibility: Medium-High. Architecture: Naval Arch only.
Academic rep#4 LAC, #6 undergrad eng (USNA data)
Admit (you)Reach
LacrosseNCAA D-I varsity (Patriot). Own track; lax is D-I reach.
Cost$0 in-state / $0 + service obligation. Federally funded; not full-pay.
Cool to knowFull scholarship + officer path
Do firstRead reqs; check DoDMERB early
NotePursue only if you want service itself
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United States Merchant Marine Academy (Kings Point) ReachD-III
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Where / sizeKings Point, NY · ~1-1.5 hr · ~1,000 students
Engineering / majorMaritime eng (#29 non-doctoral, older). Flexibility: Medium. Architecture: Naval Arch only.
Academic rep#3 Regional North; #2 top public North (USMMA)
Admit (you)Reach
LacrosseNCAA D-III varsity. Email coach if academy appeals.
Cost$0 in-state / $0 + fees/obligation. Federal academy; not full-pay.
Cool to knowWaterfront academy + attainable D-III
Do firstRead reqs; check DoDMERB early
NoteMost realistic federal-academy lax
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🎥 What to film and track this season
Junior spring is your evaluation window. Because your team might give up a lot, focus on your play so the film tells the true story:
- Save every full game — coaches want to scrub the real thing, not just a highlight reel.
- Track per game: save %, shots faced, who you played, final score. "65% on 30 shots in a 10–1 loss" is your single strongest sentence — write it down every time.
- Cut two reels: a saves reel (low, high, point-blank, on the run) and a clears/outlets reel — that second one is your edge as a converted middie. Most goalies can't make it. You can.
- Keep a one-pager: name, Class of 2028, goalie, school, GPA, the major you're leaning toward, height/weight, your coaches' contact info, and a film link.
We can throw a rough version of all this together right now from JV and backup clips, then upgrade it after the season.
🗓️ The timeline
Now — this summer (you just finished sophomore year)
- Pick 8–12 schools from the list to actually research — for academics, or whatever you like about them.
- Put together a rough profile + film from what you already have.
- Pick 3–5 D-III schools you like — and in the fall, email the coaches: short and no-pressure: who you are, that you'll apply, that you'd love a shot at the roster, a film link.
- Read up on Navy / Kings Point once and decide whether it's what you want. If you want it, it'll take real commitment from you this year.
Fall, junior year
- Crush Honors Precalc and AP Physics — that's the rigor that matters most, academy or not, at any school. Honors Precalc and AP Physics are the core "I can handle real academics" proof for serious college admissions.
- Visit a few campuses (the in-state ones are free practice: UConn, New Haven, Quinnipiac, Fairfield).
- Keep emailing coaches at any new favorites.
Junior spring — your season
- Film and track every game (see above).
- Take the SAT/ACT, and lean into the math score.
- Send a coach a fresh clip mid-season if it's good.
Summer before senior year, into the fall
- Refresh the film and the profile with your varsity season.
- Narrow it down: ~2–3 Safe, 3–4 Normal, 1–2 Reach.
- Visit the finalists; only do a prospect day if it's a school you already love and a coach has written back.
- Applications — and decide on any early-decision based on cost and fit.
If the film is great — and if it's not
Here's the part that should take the pressure off: how this season goes doesn't change your floor.
- If you get great film: send it to the D-III coaches who wrote back, hit one prospect day at a school you already love, and a roster spot becomes a real conversation. Your ceiling goes up.
- If the film's just okay: nothing changes. You still get into a school you love and walk onto a strong club team. Your floor is exactly the same.
Only the ceiling moves. The floor — play somewhere you love, for the love of it — is going to happen.
✅ A few rules for when you're not sure
- Pick flexibility over a famous program. Undecided major → a broad school beats a one-trick one.
- Trust your gut: "Would I be happy here if I got hurt and never played again?" If no, cross it off.
- Visit before you rank. You can't feel a place from a website.
- Double-check the engineering degree at any school marked "verify" if you land on wanting true civil engineering with a PE license — "engineering technology" is a different path.
Take your time with it. There's no wrong order here, and there's no clock you're behind on. — Dad
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